Friday, December 9, 2011

Thursday Night..already

I know lots of people would be wondering when I was going to get this updated, so I apologize in advance that this may be a little longer of a post. Lanita is loving the emails, texts, and calls and wants to make sure that everyone knows that she enjoys reading them all even though she finds that she can't keep up with the replying as fast as they come in. Lanita is very happy to be home.
I don't think that it would be too surprising for most people to say that the last few days have had a few emotional moments. It is easy to ask why, how, etc. but there is no answer to some of these things. Thanks to Denise and Jessica and the rest of the wonderful staff on Floor 6 for their care and all the little extras they do. The kids got to see their mom Tuesday evening and where disappointed that mom didn't have a huge cut. After letting them know that we are going to fight this a little differently, they seemed content and where happy to start asking other questions. Allan (lanita's dad) left Edmonton that afternoon, and Brent & Veronika brought Bethany and her little boy Joey in from Vancouver. Maria (Lanitas other sister) flew in from Ontario on Wednesday. Wednesday was a day of trying to get the gas out of her body from the operation and just a day of quality time. Dr. Gorman came and spent over an hour of his time with us, answering questions, giving advice and helpful insights. Chemo arrangements where fast tracked to begin the next morning. It is a 3 part chemo, 1 IV and 2 oral. There will be 3 sessions that are 3 weeks apart. The program is tailored to avoid there being a bunch of Nausea and what it will do is knock out some of the cancer cells that are impeding her stomach and allow it to get back to a functioning state. We bought a Juicer and I think that people will probably get to know us well in the fruit and veggie section of the grocery store. Chemo went well this morning/afternoon as there are 3 bags that are pumped into you, each taking about an hour. I am working at trying to keep my "staff" of people as it is amazing what gets done with the a bunch a people all helping out! Damon sang his heart out at the Christmas concert for some of us yesterday, and the rest today. Lanita was sad that she had to miss it due to chemo but will end up getting it from video. Tomorrow is another day and I am thankful that I get the chance to kiss my wife good night and wish her a good morning. She amazes me at how she has such an unbelievable heart for others and still is more worried about those around her than she is for herself.

22 comments:

  1. Hi Eldon and Lanita, I can't 'not' make a comment. This is JoAnne Campbell-Lanita might remember us- Ross and I are Donna's parents-in-law. Lanita was at our wedding when she was 6 months old- she won't remember that!!! My sister, Margaret Daku in Regina sent us your Blog address- we know Laural and Allen well- have been thinking of you all week since we heard of Lanita's diagnosis. Shalan will be feeling'far away'- it was good to catch up with her and Tim and their little family at Glencoe convention. Greetings to your M&D Eldon, I used to knwo them both when we were young. One never knows where the next bend in the road will take but we do KNOW who holds tomorrow and God knows the way and will always be there to help when we need him. Luv from Ross and JoAnne Campbell Glen Innes, NSW Australia

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  2. So happy to have her back home with you guys! I am hopeful for a positive outcome for you all! If you need some juicer recipes, let me know! I have an amazing book all about juicing! I also do a greens smoothie every morning for breakfast. I'm not sure if it is liquid enough, but would be happy to give you a few of my recipes! Much love, The Lust Family xoxoxoxoxo

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  3. You said that right Eldon, she's always thought of others before herself:) So glad the treatments have got underway and we'll hope for the best!! Luv you all xoxoxo Tim, Weaze & family

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  4. God will lead your family safely through...love and prayers. Xo Paul, Jeannine, Hunter, Helen and Grace Chrisp

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  5. Thank you for your updates Eldon. We are all thinking about Lanita and your little family these days and appreciate the updates as they come.
    So much love, Jill/Andi & kids
    Jasper says a special HI to Damon.

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  6. Dear Lanita, Larsons and Loyeks Families,
    This little verse just inspired me as I faced chemo:
    "The road that leads ahead - I do not know
    If it be long or short, but I must go
    To journey on with trust that's deeper still
    That all is well if found within his will.
    Love..Valerie G.

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  7. Dear Eldon and Lanita,
    I have been thinking of you all so, so much this past week. I couldn't get past a verse from our study "God hath not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love and of a sound mind" (2 Tim 1:7) It doesn't make anything easier naturally, but you are so fortunate to have God on your side. Please give Lanita my love, and Eldon, I haven't seen you in so long, but have such wonderful memories of our childhood. Take care of yourselves - I know you are cherishing every moment. We love you.
    Corinne (Pernisie) and Andy Bullick

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  8. Thank you so much, Eldon, for your kindness, effort and care in posting these updates. I'm thinking of you and Lanita and your kids so much these days, thankful to know you'll have help and care from family and friends in so many ways, and from above. Love, Reta H.

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  9. Thank you so much for sharing. We are thinking of you as you go through this experience. Yesterday we had Auntie Lila with us, so we felt a little closer to you! With love from Phil, Candice, Samara, Keithan, Rhett and Grady Stewart.

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  10. OUr hearts have stopped since hearing.. Thank you for the updates and know that it takes time away from all you have on your plate.. It has helped us greatly with the perspective in our own little house and what's really important!! Thinking of you guys often and know that God gives grace and strength that we cannot imagine. Hugs and luv. Wade, Leanna, Isaac , Jace and Brooke Stewart

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  11. Words can not express how I feel about your situation and what lies ahead for you, but you are in my prayers, and prayer is such of wonderful thing, when one can pray for so many, and so many to pray for one. But do keep faithful and remember that God does not make a mistake. Wishing all the best for you Lanita as your treatments get underway. Terrill and I were down to see Keith O. yesterday. A wonderful day.
    Hugs and love from Terrill and Deb

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  12. Thank you, Eldon - you do so well at keeping us informed. So good you have the help of family and friends, and you and Lanita and children can have some quality time. A big hug from Bev and Doug and Joyce Hazlewood to you all.
    Cancer is so limited....
    It cannot cripple love,
    It cannot corrode faith,
    It cannot eat away peace,
    It cannot destroy confidence,
    It cannot kill friendship,
    It cannot shut out memories,
    It cannot silence courage,
    It cannot invade the soul,
    It cannot reduce eternal life,
    It cannot quench the Spirit,
    It cannot lesson the power of the resurrection.

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  13. Dear Eldon, Lanita and family,
    You have been daily in our thoughts and hearts. Thanks so much for the updates, Eldon. We're thankful, Lanita, that you have the care of your loving family and friends. We know too, that you have God's most wonderful love and care, and we can safely trust the future to His hands.
    Love and Hugs, from Matt and Fonda

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  14. God can being good out of every experience. Thank you Eldon for taking the time to keep everyone posted. Your courage and faith are an encouragement to all of us.

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  15. Dear Eldon and Lanita,
    Our hearts have been sick since we heard your news. Elson, you might remember my husband, Dallas, and Lanita, I know your sister Maria from visiting my grandpa in ontario. We are grateful for your updates, although we know that takes you away from everything there, Eldon. We know God will give you all that you need to face this battle. Please know we are praying and thinking of your family so much these days. Dallas, Paula, Chad and Ben Young

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  16. Lanita, I've sent you an email so hope it comes through to you. Thinking of you and your family every day.

    With love,
    Janell

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  17. Dear Lanita & Eldon,

    I am In Hong Kong now but my heart and prayers are with you since I know of Lanita's health battle. God is watching you and will carry you through every step of life, just trust and have faith, everything is possible in God. He is the God of miracles.

    We are a big family in Primerica. We care, we love, we try our best! Lanita, be strong in mind, try your best to win and be well again!

    I will check for your progress everyday.

    Love & best wishes,
    Maranda Cheung

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  18. Thanks Eldon for keeping us informed. I am so sorry that the surgery result wasn't as hoped. You are all in my thoughts as you go through this difficult time. I am reminded of something that has been said to me many times, 'God doesn't give us anything we can't handle'. Good luck! :)

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  19. Hi Eldon and Lanita

    We are sending our love and prayers. We may not see each other often but you are family to us and we want you to know that we care for all of you very deeply!

    God Bless,

    Christine & Tim

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  20. Yes you are right about that last comment Eldon, Lanita is a beautiful person. Both of you have been an encouragement to Reagan and I, especially when we were 'young kids'. Thank you for being such a God-fearing couple..
    Thanks for the updates, you are in our prayers. Hugs to everyone there.
    Love, reagan&andrea, dylan, emarie and jude tarves

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  21. Thinking of you all. Thank you for the updates which shows courage in trusting us all with your lives at this stage, and we pray that you will all have the strength to continue the battle.

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